So we finally settled on four nights upstate (midweek). Couple in Woodstock and a couple in Beacon. Was hoping there might be something at Levon Helm's place while we're there but seems to be weekends mainly at present. I get to tick off a long-held ambition to see Big Pink too
Beacon looks pretty cool as well - decent hiking and some nice breweries in the town (also easy to get back into the city via train).
Re: the lack of public transport, one of my favourite bands (The National) are playing at a Belgian brewery (!) "up the road" (in US terms) while we're there but we've got absolutely no chance of making it. One for next time