If you are living overseas this is the (emailed) version of Fly Me To The Moon, thus avoiding the steep postal charges. Boro v Millwall issue included an interview with Boro author Tom Flight about his homage to that incredible season 96/97 – two cup finals and a Premier funeral. Also in the week of the shameful booing at the Den we talk with Shaun Campbell of Arthur Wharton Foundation to find out the latest news as he remembers the first black professional footballer and the first timed sprint record holder.
We talk Boro, Arthur Wharton 1st black footballer remembered, Millwall fans booing, Gentleman George Hardwick poem, Warnock on promotion realities, Spennymoor optimism all this and far, far more – c 25 mins. Come On Boro and Up The Boro
Features Arthur Wharton – first black footballer – 90th anniversary of his death and new mural in Darlington – interview with Shaun Campbell of the Arthur Wharton Foundation – timing resonates in the week of the disgraceful booing at our opponents today, Millwall.
Also interview with Tom Flight author of the fabulous Yer Joking Aren’t Ya – a celebration of the glory and not the gory ending of tumultuous season 1996/97, Ravanelli, Juninho, Emerson 3 points and a whole load of THAT
Its the @fmttmboro Boro Podcast for Boro Vs Norwich City – featuring Thomas Bartley and Ian James Smith – who both feature in #MyBoroDebut – we chat about the release of the book today. Then there is a whole lot of Neil Warnock discussion and bathe in the current Boro feelgood glow. We reflect on the sad loss of Nobby Stiles including a short tribute poem and debate on whether we can beat the Canaries #UTB
Boro take on Norwich City at an empty Riverside but hoping to pick up from where we left off before the international break. Can we keep this long unbeaten run going? We will need to tame Pukki and co. as Norwich retain much of their strikeforce from their last successful promotion run and look well start for this season’s challenge.
Can we also add any goals ourselves, which remains our only struggle this campaign, so far. Issue 609 includes tributes to Nobby Stiles and a look back to the swinging 60s through a Boro fans eyes. More recent nostalgia in praise of Emerson and talking of fulsome praise much has been heaped on present boss, Neil Warnock in these pages. The manager even features in the latest cartoon capers of Roofus. All this and far, far more besides. Click the button – sadly this is UK only
Harry Pearson took his mazy dribble through north east football back in 1994 with the incredible Far Corner, surely the finest football fan book ever written. This year has marked a long awaited return to the north east grass roots from Harry with The Farther Corner. And I tell you what it is so well worth that wait. Hilarious, thoughtful and saying so much on a personal level about Harry himself as well as the north east stamping ground that he clearly loves so dearly. The Farther Corner is studded with anecdotes and character portraits that leap off the page. Proving without a doubt that still after all these years Harry is still the top of his trade.. I simply had to chat to the author about taking this sentimental return with The Farther Corner. An edited version of this chat was printed in the Fly Me To The Moon Issue 608 v Barnsley but here is the full conversation and hopefully it whets your appetite before buying a fascinating book. Q: There was a big gap between the two books. I don’t think I have been to any event with you where someone hasn’t come up and said to you, Far Corner the best football book I have ever read. When are you going to write a follow-up? HP: It’s funny isn’t it? Because I was thinking the last time you interviewed me was when we came back from Carlisle with Uncle Harry in the car and you asked me about that then. It must be more than 10 years ago. And I hummed and harred about it. Q: Far Corner was a seminal book. It meant a lot to so many people. HP: Publishers ask me about it. Although ironically the Far Corner publisher wasn’t interested, that is why it is a different publisher. They said I don’t think anyone will want that.. Q: Far Corner was a document in time before football moved on, whether intended or not? HP: Yes it was, I realised 5 or 6 years after it came out if I went into schools to talk to kids there was stuff they didn’t know anything about like queuing up to pay in at the turnstiles and standing up. They had never seen it. All seater stadia came in. The way that we watched football before the Taylor Report or before the Riverside Stadium, the way we watched it was exactly the same as when our grandfather’s watched it. When my granddad was growing up as a kid in Essex Street when he went in it was no different to when we went. Same experience, obviously the ground had changed a bit but we would still pay at the turnstiles and stand up. Then unbeknownst to me it changed absolutely. That was just a coincidence, who would have known.
Q: You spent a lot of time in Far Corner going to grass roots clubs and although they might not have gone all seater there were also significant changes at Northern League levels too. HP: Yes. All levels. Ironically, they are much better supported now, there are many more fans now at Northern League grounds than when I wrote the Far Corner. It has become much more popular. Q: That is encouraging. HP: It is but it is also disillusionment with the higher level of football. If you look at South Shields for instance. I remember going to see South Shields in 1996. I remember there were about 115 people there and now they are getting 2500 quite regularly. That is because people are just pssed off with Newcastle, Sunderland and Boro to an extent, though not so much. Heaton Stannington, North Shields support is far more than it was and that reflects that disillusionment with higher level football. Q: A running theme or not running theme in the Farther Corner is the Rail Strike. HP: The return to the 70s. I was a bit annoyed about that because I would have gone to different places. There would have been more teams in it. It just went on and on and no one seemed to care. If it had been in the south east something would have been done about it. The rail companies were guaranteed payment as part of their franchise, so as well as not being able to go anywhere we were paying them through our tax. Q: Double whammy. But I think we did get to follow a few teams closer, particularly Dunston on their cup run and get to know the players and characters around the touchline a bit more closely. HP: I think that is probably true, yes. And that is partly because when I wrote the Far Corner I had never been to those Northern League grounds at all, now I have been going to them for 25 years so I know loads of people. That is a funny thing. When I go to football I always meet people and I have a really good chat with them and I really enjoy their company and then I go away and I have no idea what their name is or where they live, or whether they are married or whether they have kids. Just vague little bits of information that I pick up. So you just have football people that you meet at football. And part of its nice. When I was going through a really bad time these people didn’t know anything about me and didn’t know anything about that so we didn’t have to talk about it. If you met your friends they would say how are things? How are you feeling? With these people you could just witter on so it was a bit of a relief sometimes and probably for them too. Who knows? They may have had their own problems. So, it is nice to know people on that level. Q: You have just hinted there that you were going through a personal trauma of a relationship break up. Was it daunting for you to actually talk about your personal life, perhaps in the first time to such an extent in this book? HP: Yes, it sounds a bit ridiculous but in a way Northern League football was like a saving thing. I used to go on Saturday. It was like the Gascoigne thing, the only place where he felt safe was on the pitch. I used to look forward to Saturday. Tow Law versus Crook, my excitement to go was disproportionate because while I was there I was away from everything. I was away from my house and all my problems. With people who didn’t know anything about it and just treated you on that level. So, I wanted to write something about that because people who don’t follow football just think that it is nothing but it is like a community of people as well built around the game and I think important to write about that. Q: When you are talking about the characters, you are not just making fun of them are you. You are showing people in a community and showing them in the round aren’t you. HP: That’s what I wanted. In the first book I was much younger so I was rude and take the pss out of everyone. In the Far Corner I described some of the crowd at Bishop Auckland as like the loveless and the loonies and now I realise I am one of those people now. I am one of those people I described, the white haired men in their anoraks. The people I described so disparagingly, I am one of them now. Q: It is a different century now to Far Corner but once again with Farther Corner apart from a document to the rail strike you might just have caught northern football and society before COVID and the permanent change that might entail. HP: Yes you should put something about the fact this could be the only way people can now go to football which is pretty grim. It maybe is, we just don’t know at the moment. It is strange timing again. Not quite as optimistic as last time. Q: Then again there is hope as you have chronicled through the two books the resilience of the local game and the way the people that run these clubs seem to be able always to bounce back. HP: I think that is true. I think those little clubs particularly they have weathered everything that is thrown at them and I feel really sorry for them now. At the start of the season I saw one of the blokes that runs Whitley Bay and he was saying, we have got all this in place. A typical geordie in a way, really enthusiastic, positive. And now suddenly the crowds have been cut from 300 to 150 and they can’t have the club house open for the game or before the game. And all their resilience is tested again. It is like they have gone through it once and now they have got to go through it all over again. And there is no willingness from the FA or anyone to help them, is there, it seems to me. They are completely reliant on ticket sales it is not like the Premier League or even the Championship where they have got revenue from tv. They have got nothing. Without the revenue through the club house and the gate they have nothing at all. Q: Some of those clubs were so well run and were actually thriving. HP: They were. Think about Stockton. They had grown from nothing and probably drawing on Middlesbrough fans a bit, I would guess. And they would have got promoted at the end of last season and that is all stalled for them. The Northern League, it doesn’t matter if you are well organised and have a bit of money because there are a lot of teams in there like that but it is not easy to get out of, it is not easy to win the Northern League title. Clubs that have money like Celtic Nation, there have been a few teams like that, and they think we’ve got more money than everyone else, we can just breeze through it but they can’t. Because actually the standard of particularly the top eight teams is very high. It is a bit like getting out of the Championship but there is only one team. Q: Of course when you were writing the Far Corner a lot of teams stayed put. HP: Yes, they chose not to but now we are in the obverse position where if they refuse to get out of it they get relegated. That is another strange change. The FA bullying the little clubs because they can’t do anything about the big ones, it seems to me. The perfect pyramid. The pure pyramid I think they call it. But that has been stalled by COVID as well. Q: We know about how the north east was a hot bed and the saying if you shouted down a mine you would get a football team etc. But in the Farther Corner, although that time may have passed you are still travelling around former pit villages in County Durham and they still support teams don’t they? HP: Yes. Although, interestingly the teams that have done best recently have been more Tyneside and Teesside. Probably more from wealthier suburb type like Markse and Morpeth. That again is to do with money from advertising etc than there might be out in Crook and Willington, although Crook have had a bit of a revival. But it is still going on Easington, Esh and all those places. The football is still there. One of the interesting things is whether the north east produces the same amount of footballers as it did, again it is hard to judge really because obviously there are a lot of foreign players now but there don’t seem to be the same numbers. Q: You mentioned in the book how there were once scouting systems from top flight clubs like Burnley trawling the area? HP: Oh yes, even now I still find players like Jimmy Husband who played for Everton when they won the title under Howard Kendall. I didn’t realise he was from the north east. Up until maybe the 90s, there were just so many from the north east all over the place. Q: Yes, when we were reading Shoot? HP: Yes, exactly every team you saw had someone in. I remember going through Peterborough and they had a player called Tommy Robson, you know from his name. He was from county Durham. That actually made people proud of the region. Even if our teams were no good at least we had that. Q: All the players being from this area and things like the pitch at Ayresome Park. HP: Yes, groundsman Wilf Atkinson. I was reading an interview with Bobby Murdoch he said something like if you couldn’t play on that surface then you couldn’t play anywhere. He was praising the turf. I remember interviewing Alex Stepney years ago for the Guardian and I said I saw you play for the Football League against the Scottish League at Ayresome Park and he went I always loved playing at Ayresome Park because the playing surface was fantastic. You might have thought as a keeper you would prefer the opposite. Q: Don’t say that to Dimi Konstantopoulos he was a victim of the ball hitting a rut or bottle top in the Riverside pitch. And they certainly played a few times at Ayresome Park did Man United. HP: Yes, we played quite regularly in the FA and League Cup. I think Bobby Murdoch had played in that fixture too. Q: We seemed to get those of representative games a lot at that time. HP: I must have been about 7 or 8 and I think there were about 38 000 there. A huge crowd. But it was basically the England World Cup team versus the Celtic European Cup winners. There were quite a lot of good players. Q: Presumably you are grounded through COVID now. HP: I did go to a game a couple of weeks ago with Dan Gray, Jarrow versus Durham City at Perth Green on the Scotch Estate. So, it was a good place to take him being as he lives in Scotland. I went to a Dunston and Newcastle University. I have been to about four games but that was before the local lockdown came. The games are carrying on but it is awkward to get to them. Q: A bit like how awkward it was when you writing the book. HP: I feel bad because all the buses say essential journeys only. Like going to see Ryton and Crawcrook Albion versus Sunderland RCA, is that essential. It is only for work and education. Mike Amos said this is work and education. (laughs). Q: Back to your book and your granddad and he didn’t like it did he when there was any hint of success. HP: No he didn’t because that attracted part timers and he hated the part timers. He always got to the ground at the same time, always. So, for the famous Oxford United game he couldn’t get in. My dad, who never went to football ever, the classic part timer, he got there an hour before kick off and got in. And my granddad got there fifteen minutes before kick off like he always did and couldn’t get in. So, he was really pssed off. So that finished him off and after that he just wouldn’t go. He wouldn’t buy tickets in advance, that was another thing. Any of those games that were ticketed I went with my dad because he just wouldn’t go to them. Q: It is a fantastic book. HP: Thanks but I have never been so nervous, I went to Scotland the week that it came out. I switched my phone off so I couldn’t be contacted. Q: You did keep it quiet as well that you were writing it. HP: But that was because I was so nervous about it. I was hoping it would come out and no one would notice. That was my ambition. Because people have asked me about it so much.. oh no you will be disappointed. I will feel I have let everyone down. Q: Even though you have written so many excellent and different books in between times this was the follow up. The second album syndrome, perhaps. HP: Well, exactly. It is like I never did anything else. Which is great, if you are going to be remembered for anything I would take it. Yes, it felt like that, it really did. But also the thing with the first book, is that how I know you and Fischer and so many people through the Far Corner that are friends now. That I would have never have met otherwise. And that has been a great thing about football and I hope the new book is a celebration of that. That sort of friendship. That community. Because I think that is the really lovely thing about football and it is easy to forget or take it for granted or not notice it. Q: That is something worth reflecting on now when that community is under threat. HP: Well, exactly. We were all joking on the When Saturday Comes podcast, no one has thought about the groundhoppers. As a sort of slight groundhopper myself. People have forgotten it is an important social function for a lot of people. Because of the Premier League and the way football is covered at the top level all there is are the sort of people in betting ads. They think the actual football fans as like the people in betting ads. They are not are they? We’re not. As if all people are wanting is to be jumping up in the air cheering or sitting with their head in hands weeping. But that is not really why a lot of the time people are going I don’t think. Part of it but it is not the real heart of it. Also now communities are much more fractured. Did your dad work for ICI? Q: He did. HP: They were big works and they knew loads and loads of people. My dad and your dad would know thousands of people. You couldn’t go anywhere with him without him meeting someone he knew or had worked with. People don’t have that anymore because there are not those big industries now. I remember Edward Bryson, I mention in the book, he worked in Dunston in a big carpet factory there that employed 1500 men and he knew everyone by sight. So with their families he might have known 2000 people in Dunston to say hello to. That is a huge number. Nowadays you would never be with that amount of people except at football. So, the clubs are much more important in that way than they were then. And I think that is why people do get involved in non league football because they feel like part of the community, and know everyone, even if to say hello to and I think that is a really nice thing. And I think it is important thing too for people to feel that. There is a sense wherever you go, it doesn’t matter how rough the place might be but non league the football clubs are always friendly. People say hello and have a chat to you. Q: You must be meeting people that are the very heart of the community. You wouldn’t see them otherwise. HP: No you wouldn’t. I was writing a piece about cricket in County Durham for the Nightwatchman. I was talking to a bloke at Horden cricket club and he was running junior teams at Horden cricket club, he went out to work at six in the morning and when he got back from work he had his tea and then went straight to the cricket club where he was teaching junior cricket. Sometimes in the summer he was out from 6am to 10 o’clock at night and then at the weekend he was playing. I said it is amazing you do all that. And he said if I didn’t do it, who would? Q: These people are lynchpins aren’t they? HP: Well they are and with minimal help from the people that are supposed to safeguard the game. Football is exactly the same. The Boys clubs don’t get anything and they have fought for years to just get a tiny bit of a transfer fee. I think I say in the book if they had earned money from Andy Carroll’s transfer it could have kept them going for fifty years. If they got 1% of the agents fee, that could keep a club open for twenty years. That is scandalous. Because the people that put all the work in get nothing and then the agents that put nothing in at all cream it all off. There you are I feel a bit like a revolutionary. Q: That is to the fore now as we are coming towards the end of the transfer window seeing masses of money sloshing around. HP: Yes and people focus on Oh they paid ex amount of money for him, if people are mad enough to pay but the agents are creaming it off and taking millions and millions out and giving nothing to anyone. They are not adding any value to the game.
Boro take on free scoring Brentford this weekend at their brand new Community Stadium. Tackling the play off runners up will be no easy mission but Neil Warnock and his Boro team seem to be really champing at the bit at the prospect. Boro fans can pay £10 to watch the game. Saturday 3pm kick off. Boro take on Brentford for who £10m goalscorer Ivan Toney has scored more goals than the whole of the Boro put together. Thereby hangs a tale and something I put to the Boro boss at the pre-match Zoom press conference this morning: Fly: Tremendous performance at Blackburn a team with a real attacking threat but I think we had something like 19 free kicks and numerous corners are converting set-pieces something you are targeting? NW:Well, we have got to score more goals from all areas and set-pieces are a big thing. Unfortunately we haven’t really got one like I had in Sean Morrison at Cardiff. If he was playing with Paddy McNair I think he would get double figures. We haven’t got one like that so we have to work harder to get the space to get an opportunity to score goals and that is what we have been doing this week in particular. The Community Stadium is only a hefty Steve Vickers clearance away from charming old Griffin Park. But whereas the terraces and stanchions of the old ground was in amongst terraced streets and famed corner pubs the new ground is hemmed into a triangle between a rail line and the Thames. But there are still plenty of watering holes all around it. Just a shame no fans have been able to get acquainted with their new home as yet. So, it is bound to be a tough task and if we can take a point or three then apart from George Saville and Paddy McNair the rest of the Boro squad will get a well earned rest after such a hectic programme. I wanted to ask the manager about his own plans. Fly: After this game some of the squad at least get the chance some recuperation which must be very important with a small squad. People have asked me to ask you about yourself and your COVID episode how are you doing? And will you be able to take some rest time? NW: Yes, I was going to go to Cornwall for the week because my daughter is down there as well, nearby. But I am told I can’t really go to Cornwall with the government guidelines so I am staying put in sunny Darlington. So, your guess is as good as mine if I am going to enjoy it. Fly: You will. NW: I might have to get on my bike again and get a bit of warm clothing on. Get on my bike and do a little bit of cycling because it is really nice around here, isn’t it? Fly: Yes, absolutely. Northern Echo:Go fishing. NW:I know, I thought about that but that is cold. It is cold. Come On Boro and Up The Boro
The Most Famous Man on Marsh Road: Memoir of growing up in interwar Middlesbrough brought to life through artist and historian collaboration.
Fascinating insights into life growing up in interwar Middlesbrough’s Marsh Road in the town’s Cannon Street area have been published following the discovery of the memoir of Patrick Durkin. The Most Famous Man on Marsh Road tells the story of the son of Irish migrants, Durkin’s memoir recollects his early life in Middlesbrough in the aftermath of the First World War. The former shop owner describes schooling in the 1920s, life as a 15-year-old working at Furness Shipbuilding Company, the insanitary conditions of the area and some of the incredible characters and events that shaped the lost community. The memoir was uncovered in 2015 by Middlesbrough artist Sean Durkin whilst sorting through the effects of his late father John Durkin, who famously stole L.S. Lowry’s painting of the Old Town Hall from Middlesbrough Art Gallery in protest at the Gallery’s closure on a Sunday, which he considered prohibitive to working-class access to art. Believing his grandfather’s account to be of historical significance, Sean contacted historian and Heritage Unlocked consultant Dr Tosh Warwick who convinced him to publish the memoir. Now, accompanied by an essay by Dr Warwick on Patrick Durkin’s Middlesbrough, photographs from Teesside Archives and new artwork by Durkin, the memoir has been published as The Most Famous Man on Marsh Road.
Sean Durkin said “I had been told that my grandad Patrick had set about to write down his memoirs into a ‘book’ just before he died, but of course, over the years this book had long been lost. Therefore, like so many others as a family, we were left with a hazy, ever-changing and fading family history. I hope the book and the new artwork featured alongside Patrick’s story will provide the reader with a deeper understanding of my paintings, and bring a few tears and a few laughs too as it did for me.” Dr Tosh Warwick, Research Associate at Manchester Metropolitan University, added “Patrick Durkin’s memoir provides a fascinating perspective on life growing up in early twentieth century Middlesbrough that is absent from traditional histories of the town. Durkin’s neighbourhood was likely part of the ‘colony of workmen’ Lady Bell described in her At the Works social survey just decades earlier and this account provides a sense of what life was like after Bell had departed. The Most Famous Man on Marsh Road’s often humorous and sometimes near the knuckle descriptions of extreme insanitary conditions, harsh domestic life, prejudice, substance abuse and violence is unlike any other account of Middlesbrough during this period.” The artist and historian are now exploring the potential of an exhibition based upon the memoir alongside developing new education and heritage resources.
So I’ve heard those words ” You have cancer ” ………….. then a pause from the Nurse. And then came the ” BUT!” But its not serious” , she said. Now I had not left my story at the point last week, deliberately to make light of the situation and or make people think I was being flippant , it was just a case of me trying to show an absolute total and utter relief after that initial second I thought I had a serious condition. My relief was palpable especially when I got a full explanation. I was told that it was common for a man of my age to have abnormal areas of their prostrate, as they found, but an abnormality that in all likelihood would not get any worse. So with careful monitoring I should have a clean bill of health in that area for several years to come. The relief was even greater because I had convinced myself that I did have something serious and had allowed it to become worse by ignoring the symptoms for years and playing Russian Roulette with myself! All the worry and concern I had stored up disappeared that day and it was all down to the gee up I received from attending the Foundation.
So ive been going to the Foundation for 6 weeks or so and I return to tell everybody the good news. On this occasion a few new members were sitting around the table. As you will probably notice from everything ive written about the Foundation so far that a big emphasis is placed on “Talking!” I suppose its obvious to assume the Foundation called the 2 hour session ” Team Talk ” , following the ” Its Good To Talk ” mantra . At this session a lady attended , I won’t mention her name, for confidentiality reasons, other than to call her “K” but she shared her story about problems with alcohol.
I began to think if the Foundation Posters scattered around East Cleveland are attracting people like myself and “K” who had faced a lot of demons in the past and present and wanted somewhere to go and just “Talk.” I say this because its virtually impossible to get ” Counselling ” from anywhere !!!! The irony is my Doctor and Psychiatrist emphasised I badly needed Counselling or Talking Therapy and both gave me contact details for countless providers in Cleveland , only to find that there was a minimum of 9 months waiting time to see anybody. So upon discovering I could go and “Talk” at the Foundation, thats exactly what I did.
Over the coming weeks I shared a lot of personal things round a table and also listened to other people’s problems. I suppose as I said earlier , it was akin to a Counselling session but without a trained Counsellor. Just talking and unloading my thoughts helped me and at this point I want to give praise to one person who I believed actually listened , showed some empathy and understood. That person was Charlie Bell. Charlie Bell who played for Middlesbrough FC in the late 1970’s. Charlie was about the fourth Foundation worker to grace the facility in Skinningrove. On two separate occasions I divulged a fair bit of my personal past experiences and Charlie actually looked concerned when I was telling a particular story from years ago. Now what helped me was that he not only listened but the fact he looked concerned and made me think he was actually listening and empathizing. When I notice that reaction I actually feel as though with that concern, somebody cares, and if somebody cares then I actually feel better inside for sharing my problems. I’ve have many occasions where I’ve opened up, discussed very personal things in search of concern or empathy only to find the person or persons’ supposedly listening look totally detached or even disinterested. Imagine how that makes you feel .
16 years ago I did get several Professional Counselling Sessions . Before id completed all the sessions the fully qualified Counsellor called me “Don Quixote.” I thought.” That old man on a horse who lived in Spain, why is he calling me that?” I went home and studied Don Quixote a bit more. I came to the conclusion that the Counsellor thought I was a fantasist and what I was telling him wasn’t true ! The thing was what I’d been telling him for several months was 100% true and factual , but he was doing what everybody was doing at that time and that was not believing me! In all honesty what had happened to me near that period and what I was saying probably seemed pretty unbelievable but it was all true! When you are finding that you are suffering and you seek out help and tell the truth only to be disbelieved and basically labelled a Fantasist, by God do you feel hurt, bewildered and even worse than before you asked for help.
Reluctantly I went back for another Counselling session and as I thought the Counsellor intimated that he did not believe what I was saying and that I was causing my own problems by pursuing actions for no good reason. I found that very hurtful because it was the direct opposite of the truth, so I got up and walked out ! To this very day I cannot believe that the Counsellor got that opinion of me and that he placed that label on me. Surely Counsellors are supposed to be 100% impartial and non-judgemental?
All that experience did for me was make me feel worse! It made me feel more detached from people and made me more wary of human contact. I had no friends or family to unburden my thoughts to, so I had to find a Counsellor . I just felt after that experience that I was now totally on my own! I had no friends and no family to talk to, so I had to talk to a 3rd party who then made me feel worse. Sublimely 16 years ago and up until I attended the Foundation a Year a go, I’d probably chosen to keep away from people and remain an outcast from society , paradoxically for what I thought was my own sanity.
So a year ago I decided I couldn’t continue with my self-induced exile from society and consciously chose to attend the Foundation.
Ive remembered the names of the 3 Foundation members who attended within my first 6 weeks there , Mark, Lee and Jamie were their names. Id like to thank all of those for listening to me. Also for the Christmas Cards and being on the end of a phone when I was attending hospital and taking interest and concern in my health. For the previous 3 years id received two Christmas cards only, One from my Car insurer and the other from the PDSA.
Christmas comes and goes and we are now in the New Year. By now the Foundation has been going for 4 Months in East Cleveland and there are probably a hard core of 6 Users, whom I’ll refer to as the “Magnificent 6.” Only Six users bewildered and even concerned me ! There are Posters scattered all over East Cleveland and the Job Centres are promoting it, so where are everybody? I made a quip about people refusing to leave Wetherspoons, Ladbrokes or the Local Working Man’s Club. That’s 100,000 people in East Cleveland and only 6 users ? During that first 6 months all 6 of us did nothing more than talk round a table , but it is ” Team Talk .” ” Kitchen Therapy” had started by this time and there was an opportunity to attend a 6 week Kitchen Course with ” Chef ” , a ” MasterChef ” Semi-finalist at the Golf Club in Saltburn, so now there is more choices than just talking. Then Covid strikes!
I would like to thank Gary Walton and Charlie Bell for bringing me a ” Chef ” cooked meal on many occasions delivered to my door in April, May and June, it was very kind and thoughtful. As I was not seeing anybody at all for weeks on end now, I really looked forward to them showing and both would ask how I was doing .Charlie twice turned up in a Batman outfit ! If I’m truthful it looked like the one Del Boy wore in Only Fools and Horses, The Bat ears looked a bit droopy but hey he’d made the effort and im now eating a gourmet meal. It made me very humble and grateful in equal measures.
Gary set up a ” Zoom ” meeting for ” Magnificent 6″ or on occasions 3 or 4 depending on circumstances and some starting work. We would do quizzes on zoom. That 30 minutes to one hour was again the only human contact I was getting once in that week, so you can imagine I found it welcome ! Ive complimented Charlie so I want to compliment Gary and all I’m going to say is …. He’s a nice and likeable young man very suited for his position in the Foundation . We “Zoom” on and off for 3 months and the meals keep coming.
When the restrictions are lifted we start doing ” Walk and Talk ” which are just gentle strolls where we talk about anything for 2 hours! One walk helped me discover the Beach at Skinningrove which is better than Bondi! Amazingly I’ve lived in Cleveland for 40 odd years and 12 years in East Cleveland and didnt even know it was there. Now the secret is out !
So thats it and up to date. I’m still attending every week and the first year is now up, as we are about to be locked up again! Gary said today he will start ” zoom” and the quizzes again and the meals may start again.
I know I was asked to state how the Foundation has helped me and what they actually do , so I hope I have. I know on occasions I’ve flown off at a tangent discussing many other things or been long winded in some aspects and I apologise if I’ve done too much of that. The thing is I have sought out writing as a way of reaching people and making human contact with words. I have so few options to make contact in this big world we live in, some reasons are self induced , others due to circumstance by having no friends or family. I said to Rob Nichols that writing as often been therapeutic for me and doing these pieces posted on FMTTM certainly has been . I’ve smiled, grimaced, frowned and even blubbered like a baby whilst writing these past three pieces but above all enjoyed doing them.
So thank you for reading, I’ve not used spell check or grammarly, I’ve just written and not checked anything, so if there are any errors … I don’t care !!!!
Start of October – Boro going well but Chris Bartley is yearning for When Saturday Comes a return to watching the Boro and the Riverside matchday routine. Neil Garratt is keeping a mental health check. Harry Pearson is interviewed about his superb new book The Farther Corner. From where we fly over the Atlantic to join Boro North America.