I think this 2 years has changed a lot of people, their mental health has suffered a great deal, I'm coming to terms with a mini mental health crisis of my own, (well I think I am but I've never had this before) .I had a very silly argument with a friend of 25 years over WhatsApp tonight over bloody energy prices, I have deleted and blocked him without even thinking about how crazy that is, I do not remember his number! This os not rational behaviour and is so out of character for me, I've been so bitter these last few weeks over life in general, and then I go and do something so irrational and petty like that! I consider myself of decent intelligence, but I guess 2 years of this insane world, and angry cynical politics is enough to make people think and do irrational things, including the dentist in question, I've had an epiphany tonight, I'm not quite myself at the moment and perhaps she isn't either, how a dentist can deny a vaccine is beyond me, but then how can a man my age act like such a kid!
100% agree mate, don’t beat yourself up about it.
The uncertainty and the isolation and the worry of it all is just scarring for every one of us, isn’t it? It’s unprecedented, we’ve never lived through anything like this before and even three months of it would have been jarring - 2+ years is a hell of a long time and not what any of us expected.
It’s unnatural for humans to socially isolate themselves for so long and to deal with this level of uncertainty. I mean, watching Netflix and learning how to do Zoom meetings isn’t going to war; but there’s going to be a level of generational trauma to a greater or lesser extent that affects us all. I think there will be some really interesting studies written about it in ten years.
I know for me, I’ve definitely gone a bit odd during the pandemic and the same with everyone I know - when catching up with friends and family I have to keep reminding myself that we’ve all had a time of it, and we’re all a bit damaged by it in different ways, and to keep giving people the benefit of the doubt about it. It’s not easy though, we’ve all developed bad mental health habits and it’s weird re-learning your social skills!
On the OP’s point, I have lost a bit of respect for some people, yeah. I think we’ve all been online a bit too much because of the isolation and there’s so many rabbit holes. My most fervent anti-vaxxer friends are all yoga / cacao ceremony / vegan types, very health conscious types, and it’s depressing how far they’ve gone into something that I think is, well, ridiculous really. I try and look past it because there’s still a person underneath who I really like, but have definitely lost respect for them.
I wouldn’t hold any truck with anyone involved in medicine or health - including your dentist - who not only thinks that ****, but talks about it during a health care checkup, absolutely unbelievable and frankly dangerous and so irresponsible.
If you’re a yoga teacher and off with the fairies you can believe what you want, but if you’re a health professional and you don’t believe in science, you’re so in the wrong job.