I feel flipping useless today!!!

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Legz

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Had a good cry to the hubby yesterday....Still feel cack today 😭😭. Arthur's not really the problem....he's gone...just my daughter had a bad day Tuesday but didn't want to tell me with everything I'm currently going through. Hubby's had a face like a smacked ass for weeks and I feel like it's all my fault.
I knew I'd get to a point where I'd have a s***y day or two and it looks like it's arrived. And to top is all the hubby made me watch Kes for the first time last night....i dont see what all the hype is about that film...and i bl@@dy told him about that bird...and it bl@@dy happened..just what i needed!!! Need to sort meself out. Was looking forward to getting in the garden this week with the temps picking up but the rain has put paid to that...b***r!!
Think I'll go see me mam for a hug...I just need to get back to my jovial self
 
Don't be too hard on yourself Legz.. you've had a tough few months and deserve to have a few days where you don't quite feel like being everything to everyone.

Hopefully brighter days aren't too far away, both literally and metaphorically.

Maybe lay off the sad films for a bit too... definitely avoid Marley and Me!!!
 
Teesste said:
Don't be too hard on yourself Legz.. you've had a tough few months and deserve to have a few days where you don't quite feel like being everything to everyone.

Hopefully brighter days aren't too far away, both literally and metaphorically.

Maybe lay off the sad films for a bit too... definitely avoid Marley and Me!!!
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I didn't even know it was a sad film....I kept warning the hubby saying I can't have this happening at the end of the film the mood I'm in and he was like "oh just keep watching"....the git!!!
 
I think you're allowed to be a little down all things considered. Don't beat yourself up about it. Go see your mam and get that hug.

Kes is a film you only watch once as far as I'm concerned. Bleak and depressing.
 
You have been in an awful situation for X amount of months and you have been in fight mode, you have thankfully now came through the other side of the fight.
You are probably emotionally and physically exhausted but are understandably wanting to get everything back to normal. Just give it time and give yourself time to heal, take each day as it comes and before you know it you will be back to yourself.
Take care and look after yourself you are doing really well.
 
You really need to be kind to yourself. You will have these periods, after what you have been through - it would be unnatural not to.

Just sit down with your husband and remind you're there for him, and that it's the situation that has caused any upset and tension - neither of you are to blame, and it's nothing that he has done wrong.

It will pass. You're allowed to feel like that.
 
You’ve been on spin cycle for months, hopefully this is a sign that things are settling down and you’re starting to return to ‘normal’ whatever that is. Remember if you had anaesthetic it take six months to get through your system so there could be a bit of that in it too.
 
Give yourself a break a little bit. After everything you have been through, you are allowed to have some back days. This rain is hacking me off as well, as I need to get some gardening done! My favourite book is Kes. 🥺

To laugh when down, I literally stick on hours of Friends repeats on Comedy Central. Not for everyone (doing it right now)

You are strong and brighter days will come. Keep talking here, they are a great bunch 😊
 
sadgit said:
Give yourself a break a little bit. After everything you have been through, you are allowed to have some back days. This rain is hacking me off as well, as I need to get some gardening done! My favourite book is Kes. 🥺

To laugh when down, I literally stick on hours of Friends repeats on Comedy Central. Not for everyone (doing it right now)

You are strong and brighter days will come. Keep talking here, they are a great bunch 😊
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Giving myself a laugh alright...watching my bets on Cheltenham!! ( don't worry, I know what they say about betting when your down etc...just doing my regular 10p each way (£3) lucky 15 as I do every year)
 
Legz said:
Had a good cry to the hubby yesterday....Still feel cack today 😭😭. Arthur's not really the problem....he's gone...just my daughter had a bad day Tuesday but didn't want to tell me with everything I'm currently going through. Hubby's had a face like a smacked ass for weeks and I feel like it's all my fault.
I knew I'd get to a point where I'd have a s***y day or two and it looks like it's arrived. And to top is all the hubby made me watch Kes for the first time last night....i dont see what all the hype is about that film...and i bl@@dy told him about that bird...and it bl@@dy happened..just what i needed!!! Need to sort meself out. Was looking forward to getting in the garden this week with the temps picking up but the rain has put paid to that...b***r!!
Think I'll go see me mam for a hug...I just need to get back to my jovial self
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You have had all had a bit of a rough time, a bit tired and need the sun to shine. It all gets a bit like that for us all. There's always one of you who will lift the spirits, I would imagine it is normally you. Things don't change a lot in the home. Best Wishes.
 
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