Sorry this is saga.
Seen a lot of it on here giving a lot of sensible support.
A good mate of mine is struggling.
He's been on and off for over two decades my right hand man and we've worked all over the world together in oil and gas.
We've not worked together for a couple of years but keep in touch every week.
Three weeks ago he didn't call so I rang him and he didn't answer, left a message and he still didn't call back.
I took the number ID off my phone and he did answer.
He'd jacked in his current job and was cracking up when he told me he'd lost all his confidence.
I was astonished but tried to reassure him as best I could but it was a much shorter conversation that it should have been.
He had a wobble about 10 years ago when working for me in Austria then went back after 6 weeks and all seemed good.
He was supposed to call me Thursday on his way home but didn't.
Tried him a couple of times since with no reply
I don't know his wife so can't call her but I'm really worried about him. Work has been his life for 4 decades (he's 63) and he has no hobbies and no mates other than work mates and none of us can contact him.
He's out of the same stupid 'lust get on with it' mould as me so for him to admit he's lost his confidence is so worrying.
I just don't know what to do. I know where he lives but really don't think I could knock on his door.
Seen a lot of it on here giving a lot of sensible support.
A good mate of mine is struggling.
He's been on and off for over two decades my right hand man and we've worked all over the world together in oil and gas.
We've not worked together for a couple of years but keep in touch every week.
Three weeks ago he didn't call so I rang him and he didn't answer, left a message and he still didn't call back.
I took the number ID off my phone and he did answer.
He'd jacked in his current job and was cracking up when he told me he'd lost all his confidence.
I was astonished but tried to reassure him as best I could but it was a much shorter conversation that it should have been.
He had a wobble about 10 years ago when working for me in Austria then went back after 6 weeks and all seemed good.
He was supposed to call me Thursday on his way home but didn't.
Tried him a couple of times since with no reply
I don't know his wife so can't call her but I'm really worried about him. Work has been his life for 4 decades (he's 63) and he has no hobbies and no mates other than work mates and none of us can contact him.
He's out of the same stupid 'lust get on with it' mould as me so for him to admit he's lost his confidence is so worrying.
I just don't know what to do. I know where he lives but really don't think I could knock on his door.