atypical_boro
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I was 14 at that match and although the sense of occasion that we’d finally made an FA Cup final wasn’t lost on me, if I’m honest I never thought we’d win and I was still devastated about relegation the week before. It’s funny how people perceive things differently.It’s got to be Ben Roberts. I can’t even put into words the experience of making the FA Cup final for the first time EVER; the unmitigated joy of walking up Wembley Way, mingling with old schoolmates, family, strangers in outrageous hats and outfits - full of joy, hope and pride; singing ‘Abide With Me’ with 40,000 Teessiders - a dream I’d had since I was a kid. Then sitting down with happy tears in my eyes, and WTF!!!!!! 1-0 down before my bum had hit the seat. Useless arms-open ‘gesture’ from Ben in the general direction of a DeMatteo speculative hoof and TOTAL DESOLATION and ‘OH GOD, PLEASE, NOT AGAIN!!’
More deflation than the Hindenburg. Ecstacy to total despair in a nanosecond.
Festa’s perfectly good goal being disallowed just felt like the Gods were against us, but Ben Roberts destroyed a dream inside a few minutes, just like PE with Kate Bush.
That wonderful day in Cardiff did do some healing, but that moment at Wembley still has me wake up in sweats in the night. And, yes, my grandma COULD have saved it.
p.s. This could be a fantastic thread - oh sweet Jeezy Creezy, have we had some donkeys in our time!
P.s. Although, i must add an honourable mention for Andy Dibble’s performance in that 5-0 against QPR. It was actually funny it was so terrible. I think that they sussed early on that if they kicked it in the general direction of the goal, they were pretty much guaranteed to score. He was like an anti-Pears or Schwarzer - from a parallel universe of total ineptitude.
I’d love us to make an FA Cup final now (and am nowhere near as bothered what division we’re in) but in a way it wouldn’t feel as big as I just don’t think the cup competitions are revered as much. It feels now like the untouchable dream for Boro would be qualifying for the CL or something, many of us may turn our nose up at that but it would be pretty awesome if it happened in reality.
Anyway, worst keeper we’ve had for me is probably Brad Jones but I feel bad cos he seemed like a nice lad. Hopefully he won’t be reading this.