Don't think anyone is demanding that "we should be churning out 3 points per game", but many are concerned that were have not replaced the players we have lost, loans or otherwise, and are much weaker than we were. There is very little evidence of tactical flexibility, and we keep trying the same things over and again, with the same poor results.
No one is sh-tting themselves, as the OP states, but people are right to be concerned that we've begun this season even worse that we finished the last. There is little sign of improvement, and nothing to suggest or give confidence that we'll bring in the players we so desperately need in the next 5 days. If this continues it will only end one way, and we are back to square one again.