We have always impressed on the kids how fortunate we are to be financially stable and going out for meals and holidays and Christmas presents aren't a right but a privelidge.
About 3 weeks ago coming out of Asda my wife bought a local homeless character a tea and a pastie. When she gave it to the man my daughter took 5 pounds out of her purse and handed it to the man.
If you raise them right, they do you proud.
On a slightly different note, last week she told me she didn't want me to die. When I explained that we all die, eventually, she replied "who am I gonna sponge off, mams got nowt"