Life really is Bittersweet!!

[Norman_Conquest]

I’m not agree because your statement was encompassing every situation as you said there was no benefit, for some people there could be

Most people who play after tragedy tend to say ‘they would have wanted it this way’

I think after reflecting on this, it’s not for the likes
Of us to see they should or should not find out.

I would want to know, you wouldn’t and both are fine

OK then, can you explain the benefits of immediately knowing about the death because I don’t see any.

 

[ForssAwakens]

OK then, can you explain the benefits of immediately knowing about the death because I don’t see any.

I did, some people have been galvanised in their performances, there is evidence of it.

 

[GibbosEmpire]

Why, honestly what benefit do you get from knowing.

If he was terminally ill she will have said her goodbye’s before she flew out to Australia. Nothing prepares or prevents the pain of losing a parent but there is no benefit in knowing before such an important event.

I want to be given the choice, that choice was taken away from her because of football, **** football, family comes first

 

[Pak_Doo_Ik]

I want to be given the choice, that choice was taken away from her because of football, **** football, family comes first

You do know her family chose not to tell her?

 

[GibbosEmpire]

You do know her family chose not to tell her?

Don't care, still the choice was made for her

 

[ForssAwakens]

Don't care, still the choice was made for her

someone Has said that olga was part of the decision making before she went

 

[Norman_Conquest]

I did, some people have been galvanised in their performances, there is evidence of it.

That’s not a benefit, you are taking a chance on how she react and on how it will impact on her performance.

Don't care, still the choice was made for her

None of us know the full circumstances or if it was her father’s choice.

 

[ForssAwakens]

That’s not a benefit, you are taking a chance on how she react and on how it will impact on her performance.

None of us know the full circumstances or if it was her father’s choice.

I’m not talking about her choice specifically or her performance, I’m taking about different people react differently. So her choice for her will have been the right one, for others it will be different

 

[Millbrook]

If I was the father in that position I would not want her to know beforehand.
I would want her to experience the build up and the game free of grief.

 

[Norman_Conquest]

I’m not talking about her choice specifically or her performance, I’m taking about different people react differently. So her choice for her will have been the right one, for others it will be different

I thought the whole point of your view was that she hadn’t been given a choice!!!

 

[ForssAwakens]

I thought the whole point of your view was that she hadn’t been given a choice!!!

The conversation between me and you had evolved

 

[Norman_Conquest]

The conversation between me and you had evolved

Or you changed your mind and came to the same conclusion I had at the start of the conversation. There was no benefit in telling her.

On another note, I lost both my parents aged 15. What a game of cards you that was.