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DonTheKing

DonTheKing

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My son who is 26 is getting really worked up, basically he's gf of 7 years had a stripper for her 30th birthday last night with the girls.
He is saying its over, I said don't be too hasty but I can understand he's frustrations.
Anything else I can say or do for him right now, he's devastated poor lad. 😢
 
If something like that is enough to make him want to end it, then maybe they aren’t meant to be together anyway? Not sure that helps at all, but if he has trust issues and is prepared to ditch his 7 yr relationship over it then the question probably needs asking?

Edit - having said that, if he’d made it really clear how he felt and there were no double standards involved (ie he’s seen a stripper before on stag dos or whatever) and she chose to completely ignore him and played some part in booking it herself (rather than her mates booking it for a surprise or whatever) then she’s not really respected his view/feelings and maybe she’s the one that put it all on the line?
Relationships are F***ing complicated 😂
Hopefully it all blows over and it sorts itself out one way or the other.
 
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Kevo4 said:
Is this serious? He wants to turn his back on his woman of 7 years coz her mates bought her a stripper for her birthday, probably as a bit of a laugh?
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I don't know he's obviously not thinking straight at the minute, I think he found out on Snapchat so nobody told him, I mean I wouldn't know if they've discussed things in the past about this sorta thing.
I'm in the similar mindset to you lot, I would just make fun out of it but he's very sensitive.
I think he needs ro realise what he's saying.
 
I don't think it's exactly the crime of century, but if it goes strongly against his values and if it's something he's previously discussed with her and agreed would be crossing a line then it probably feels like quite a big betrayal.

Suppose the question for me is did she know about it in advance or was it sprung on her as a surprise? What are the exact circumstances?

If this is such a big deal breaker for him and she knew that and instigated it anyway then maybe she's not the girl for him anyway?

Everyone has their own red lines. Suppose all you can do is talk it through with him and help him make sure he's sure this is a hill he wants to die on.
 
dontheking said:
I don't know he's obviously not thinking straight at the minute, I think he found out on Snapchat so nobody told him, I mean I wouldn't know if they've discussed things in the past about this sorta thing.
I'm in the similar mindset to you lot, I would just make fun out of it but he's very sensitive.
I think he needs ro realise what he's saying.
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If it’s just a stripper then he just needs to laugh it off.
 
Diego said:
If it’s just a stripper then he just needs to laugh it off.
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Easier said than done at the minute. I mean is still only early in the day, I've tried telling him its only a laugh.
I'm just don't really know what else to say.
 
festa5 said:
I don't think it's exactly the crime of century, but if it goes strongly against his values and if it's something he's previously discussed with her and agreed would be crossing a line then it probably feels like quite a big betrayal.

Suppose the question for me is did she know about it in advance or was it sprung on her as a surprise? What are the exact circumstances?

If this is such a big deal breaker for him and she knew that and instigated it anyway then maybe she's not the girl for him anyway?

Everyone has their own red lines. Suppose all you can do is talk it through with him and help him make sure he's sure this is a hill he wants to die on.
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My thoughts exactly which is what I've told him, he doesn't know the full story yet will find out later, he thinks she's knee about it but hasn't told him. But that's him thinking the worst, I said just ring her and ask her what the deal is.
He does feel betrayed that's the issue here. I don't think he's ever been to strip club he's not that kind of lad.
 
I feel it is best that I do not give any advice. As I just cannot believe this happened and the post is a wind up.

If it is true this might cheer him up a bit. I am a man in his 60s who occasionally acts as a designated driver when I am invited to go out for a meal with my wife and some of her female friends.

I have been nicknamed the chauffeur and told I have to open the doors for them. Plus help them in and out of the car.

Around 10 days ago I ordered a bit of chauffeur dressing up stuff on Amazon. It was just a cap, some white gloves and a tie fastened with velcro. It was advertised as suitable for a stripper. My wife nearly threw up at the thought of me using it in that way.

Not had a chance to use them yet.
 
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Tell him that strippers have much bigger, penises than the average man and that's why they become strippers. Well, that and their washboard stomachs.
 
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