So, just left hospital....all very positive. Very treatable and hasn't spread so had treatment options and I've decided to bulldoze his house down (mastectomy) which is what I've wanted to do since I found out and I'm going in the 15th of next month. Just to make sure he hasn't left any belongings behind he's also getting a bit of chemical warfare after (chemo). I'm strangely happy today....its what I wanted to hear....I was more scared of being told it had spread. Plus they've said it's not a hereditary thing so the 16 year old daughters not gonna have to worry about the future!!