I nearly put that in my post (is the grass greener) but took it out. You never know if you don't try and it could be something you later wished you did. I would rather be proved wrong than sit wondering what if.
Norman,
My father in law many years ago, urged me and my wife to save money for a deposit on a house and to stop pouring money down the drain by way of renting.
He started to take us to outer suburbs of Sydney where new land was cheaper and at the time, we knew that he was right but we knew within ourselves that we
wanted to travel the world.
After we had amounted a decent deposit for a purchase and thought it through and agonised over it for months we decided to travel.
It was left up to me to break it to the in-laws.
I was nervous about it, so much so, as they had wasted so much time and effort.
When I did break the news to them and expecting a roasting, my father in law simply looked at me and said " Well son, when you get old like me, you look
back through your life and you find that you never regret the things that you did, but, you always regret the things that you didn't do. Follow your dreams son
and give my daughter a wonderful life.
I had no idea at the time how profound those words would be for the remainder of my life.
Those words of wisdom has been passed on to many young fellas over the years that I worked with that came to me seeking advice from an older and wiser head.
Thanks Dad, those words changed my life and several others. RIP
Love and best wishes from Oz
Stay safe.
UTB