WeeGord
Well-known member
I’m really saddened to read this Artie, as you come across as one the most laid back and respectful posters on here and it’s clear why you’re rattled, and rightly so. He has now exacerbated the situation with his ‘clarification’ response by suggesting the moral thing should only be done if it’s financially viable to do so.Quite possibly, but you surely can't justify having a child purely for financial gain?
Sorry, but I'm quite emotive about this as someone who wanted nothing more than to be a dad, my wife to be a mother, but after several miscarriages we realised that wasn't going to happen for us and I wasn't going to put my wife through that again. I don't think I'll ever fully make my peace with that. For someone to suggest having a child because it makes financial benefit is something that rattles me
There’s words for people like him and I’m probably best off not saying it. ANYONE who has children for financial reasons isn’t fit to be a parent.